Shalom l'culam,
Sorry I've kept you in the dark for some time. I have been quite busy with work, dealing with bureaucracy and celebrating holidays...
Last week my father came to Israel to visit me for the Passover holiday. He comes every year at this time because it is the holiday where you feel the Jewish spirit. It is one of the most significant events in Jewish history. In short, this holiday is when the ancient Israelites were freed from slavery in Egypt.
When we opened the door to our friends home in Jerusalem, we were greeted by Sheila (a Wales native, and olah for about 35 years) and her husband Zvi who was born in what was then called Palestine. Greeting the rest of the guests I noticed how diverse they were; an Israeli mother-son duo, a Russian couple with two Israeli teenagers, our guests' Israeli adult kids, and my father, the American. This is one of the many reasons why I love Israel; the diversity, the melting pot.
As my father read his part of the Haggadah, I scanned mine, noticing that I was only familiar with a few words. I was an Israeli now, so I decided to read my part like one. "Liba, go on darling," Sheila said from the other side of the table. Before I started reading I said "Savlanut vakasha" - patience please. My heart started beating fast as I struggled with the first few lines of the Shakespearian-level Hebrew. I noticed my father from the corner of my eye wiping his tears, in shock that his daughter was reading the language of the Jewish people! He is a Zionist at heart and has passed that on to me. After reading the paragraph like my four year old gan kids speak English, everyone at the table clapped for me, for they knew what that felt like. I have never smiled so big. I did it! I was so proud of myself. I could have chosen the easy route -- to read in English but I chose the struggle and I'm happy I did.
For those of you wondering why I was so crazy as to move half way across the world to this rude, disorganized, hard-headed country, follow my blog about my new life. I hope you laugh, cry and learn a little something too.
Monday, April 16, 2012
Saturday, January 14, 2012
mosaic element
Yesterday on my sheirut ride back home, I realized how varied the citizens of this country are. When i got on, there were two Ashkenazi Israeli friends in the back row. To my right, on the other single seat was an Ethopian Jew. At the next stop, a Filipino mother-daughter duo walked in. And of course, me, an American-Israeli. Other places that people make Aliyah from include Canada, France, UK, Russia, and the list goes on. Singles, families with toddlers, grandparents, teens with or without their families make this huge decision. All of these diverse Jews from all different backgrounds decide to move to Israel and settle. There is an estimated 3,000+ Israeli born babies to olim (new immigrants) parents or a mix of Israeli and Oleh/ah. At the end of the day Israel isn't as bad as people complain about. People are willing to look past the bad and appreciate the good; the closeness between Israelis, the laughter, the pride.
Judging by the diverse people that Israel accepts into their country, how can people accuse Israel of being an apartheid state?
Judging by the diverse people that Israel accepts into their country, how can people accuse Israel of being an apartheid state?
Saturday, December 31, 2011
DIIIEEEEEEEE!!!
I can't believe I have been working at my gan (hebrew for kindergarten) for three months now. How time flies. I really got to love my kids like they are my own. You get to know their different personalities and even have favorites. I know, this is bad. Really bad. But I can't resist their cute little faces and English accents. They are so chamud!!!! Proof below.
I remember walking into the gan one of my first days and seeing a kid pulling his mothers shirt as she tried to drop him off in his class. She screamed DIE, DIE!! I thought to myself, "Wow, I knew Israeli's are aggressive but not as much as to tell their kids to die." As the days passed, still in shock I kept hearing mothers utter those words to their kids. In hebrew class the next week, the teacher explained the word DIE. I looked up from my notebook, immediately with the Gan image in my head. It all made sense now. Die is the hebrew word for stop! Because of the kids I will never forget the meaning of the word. Thanks yeladim :)
Wishing everyone a healthy and happy New Year to come!!! 2011סוף
I remember walking into the gan one of my first days and seeing a kid pulling his mothers shirt as she tried to drop him off in his class. She screamed DIE, DIE!! I thought to myself, "Wow, I knew Israeli's are aggressive but not as much as to tell their kids to die." As the days passed, still in shock I kept hearing mothers utter those words to their kids. In hebrew class the next week, the teacher explained the word DIE. I looked up from my notebook, immediately with the Gan image in my head. It all made sense now. Die is the hebrew word for stop! Because of the kids I will never forget the meaning of the word. Thanks yeladim :)
Wishing everyone a healthy and happy New Year to come!!! 2011סוף
Friday, December 16, 2011
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There's nothing like a Friday morning in Tel Aviv -- not because I don't work or I can sleep in. I'm referring to the vibe. Families and friends are out in coffee shops, catching up, laughing. Dogs sit patiently under the tables while the owners eat breakfast and smoke a cigarette. Long lines outside trendy restaurants on trendy streets. Bikers ring their bells at pedestrians while the women move the carriage out of the bike lane. Friends play guitar on park benches. Every two blocks on Rothschild there is a different event... opera singers, dance show, music show and if you wish you can join in. The city doesn't allow you to get bored. Israelis really know how to live and appreciate life.
The weekends (start Thursday and end Saturday) are strictly dedicated to friends and family. No work. This is why Shabbat is such an important thing to Jews; as busy as you may be with work and kids and life, you know that Friday night dinner is reserved to catch up with family.
Saturday, November 19, 2011
"You're American. Oh so you're here with Birthright."
I have been a bit busy lately and have neglected my blog but I'm back...
As time goes by I keep hearing stories about girls who made Aliyah for their Israeli boyfriends, including my neighbor on my Aliyah flight. The guys happen to be their soldiers on Taglit. It all of a sudden hit me: Taglit, and all of the organizations {Masa, Career Israel, study abroad programs} are Israeli recruitments in disguise. Rumor has it that the program chooses handsome/attractive soldiers on purpose, making it appealing for the American girls. For the soldiers that get chosen to guard a Birthright trip, they feel as though they have won the lottery! It’s like an American/Israeli dating service, and once they have you, you’re hooked. You Skype for a few months while your both home and then you make Aliyah for him a few months later because you think he’s the one and you want to build your life in Israel. It’s all a dream… until you get there and you have to deal with the beauracracy – but that’s a whole different story. Although I'm one of few exceptions, I feel proud to have moved to a place for my love of the country, not for a person.
Although I have mostly spoken negatively about Israel (because it's things that would not happen in America) Israel/is also has many great qualities. Israelis are very warm people and truly want to get to know you, even if you'll never see them again. They appreciate family. Most Israeli families have close-knit relationships with one other. One of the main reasons I think this is so is because of Shabbat. If the family is busy all week, there is one day in the week where they can all get together and catch up. When I speak to an Israeli, I feel like I have known them my whole life. I can't explain why, I just feel like I have known them for years. Israeli's are the only people that will host you for Shabbat dinner or invite you over to break the fast, even if you just met that night. This is unheard of in America. The American parent would question it saying "You don't know who they are. It can put you in danger." That's the things about Israel, everyone is family. There is such a sense of community here that I have never felt in any other place. Israel is also, ironically, the safest place I have ever lived. They check every person that enters a mall, synogogue, government building, clubs, etc. Yes, they are pushy and loud people, but every people have faults. I think the good definitely override the bad.
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
You're in the Army now!
On a sunny Sunday in August, I was on a bus with other volunteers from all over the world; Argentina, America, Brazil, Holland, England… We were on our way to the base, close to Beer Sheva. Once on the base, we rested for a few hours before they put us to work. At 1pm we were split off into groups of four. As we approached the workstation I saw two lines of huge white and red trucks. We were handed a stencil, a sponge and a small bucket of paint. The assignment was to paint three numbers on each front side of every truck. As I started completing more trucks, they started to look more like numbers. I don’t consider myself an artist but I thought it turned out pretty well.
The next day I was sent with another volunteer to a nearby office who would send us to the workstation. We arrive there and the the overweight Russian commander says “Ain avodah” (There is no work). I say “What? Didn’t you talk to my counselor, Tal? She sent us here and told us that you have work for us.” He replies with “Lo mevin. Ain avodah po” (I don’t understand you. There is no work here). So through sign language and broken Hebrew I understood to get paper to play games. After two hours of hearing soldiers and commanders speak over each other while trying to concentrate on my Hangman game, I thought to myself how useless I felt. The purpose of volunteering was to help out and learn something.
Monday night at around 10 pm I’m hanging out with a few soldiers and volunteers outside. All of a sudden I hear the loudspeaker come on and say something in Hebrew with the word Adom (red). A volunteer explains to me that it means Red Alert. As I envision a rocket right behind me, I sprint 30 feet to the bomb shelter. After reaching cover ten seconds later, I look back and the soldiers are strolling toward me. As I scream “C’mon”, they were laughing at my reaction to this whole thing --- they have been dealing with this their whole lives and don't think it's a big deal. As I enter the hallway full of soldiers, my counselor runs upstairs to wake up the sleeping volunteers since the second floor is not built as a bomb shelter. I proceed to sit next to the other volunteers and talk about what just happened. To my right are soldiers; men calm and collected, girls a bit shaky and one on the phone crying. About fifteen minutes later we get the okay that it’s safe to go.
When an area is hit they have a certain amount of time to reach shelter. Beer Sheva has 1 minute, Mishmar has 40 seconds, and Sderot has 15 seconds. The times are based on how far the area is in comparison to where the rockets usually come from.
When we boarded the bus Thursday at noon (the weekends here start on Thursdays), we got news about rockets hitting open field in Beer Sheva, only a meter or two away from where we were. After hearing my counselors at the front of the bus yell the frightening news, I couldn’t help but cry. What have I gotten myself into? What am I doing here? Is this what I want my life to be like? This is the way of life here and I knew that going into this. This news report just made it so real.
I decided to change bases for the next week since I didn’t feel like I was doing much at the first base. I went to the medical base. This is a completely different scene. It’s just a bunch of warehouses filled with supplies that need to be sorted. First I sorted syringes, Latex gloves, bandages, and so on, into the appropriate labeled boxes. We continued by grabbing a medium-sized plastic bag, where we placed the indicated number of items in each bag and added other bags with more supplies, to make a medical bag. The last thing would be a checklist of supplies for the medic. We filled a bin up with about forty bags. We would place four plastic bags in a cardboard box, where it would proceed to storage. The warehouse full of cardboard boxes was where the medical supplies from Israel came from that were sent to Japan during the earthquake this passed March. The duties would change from sealing the bags, to putting in the contents. These tasks seem mindless but on the other hand, if you forget one item, it could be crucial.
This time around the Army was much more fulfilling and feel as though I contributed. J
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PZHnmCz6YvE
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PZHnmCz6YvE
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